Did Lily Really Love James or was that a lie???? Anyone know???

I loved the Lily/James story(he was an idiot then grew up to be with her) but now am uncertain about what was actually true? like would she have rather married Snape? has JK answered this anywhere??? everyone%26#039;s just talking about how james was horrible but i never imagined him like that...thoughts? facts?

Did Lily Really Love James or was that a lie???? Anyone know???
MA: How did they get together? She hated James, from what we%26#039;ve seen.





JKR: Did she really? You%26#039;re a woman, you know what I%26#039;m saying. [Laughter]





-http://www.mugglenet.com/jkrinterview3.s...





Jaclyn: Did lily ever have feelings back for snape


J.K. Rowling: Yes. She might even have grown to love him romantically (she certainly loved him as a friend) if he had not loved Dark Magic so much, and been drawn to such loathesome people and acts.





Also, her patronus was a doe, and James%26#039; was a stag.





Chely: James patronus is a stag and lilys a doe is that a coincidence?


J.K. Rowling: No, the Patronus often mutates to take the image of the love of one%26#039;s life (because they so often become the %26#039;happy thought%26#039; that generates a Patronus).





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Reply:J.K said that if situations were different,


lily would have loved snape in return


seeing they were best friends





but lily thought that snape was doing a lot of things that were not approoved by her


and she chose james because he was light-hearted and was behind her for ages





it happens in life all the time
Reply:Hi!


She kind of answers it throughout her books.


She did love James. Probably not as first, but she did love him by the time they get finally together. (Picture a situation somewhat similar as the one with Ron and Hermione).





At first, she obviously didn%26#039;t like him, because James was obviously obnoxious and a bit bigheaded. She never loved %26quot;LOVED%26quot; Snape. She loved him as a friend and what drew them apart was Snapes liking of the Dark Arts.





Lily ended up loving James because he valued friendship, he was loyal and defended bravely the Good Side. In my mind, they fell in love during the first Order of The Phoenix.





Goodluck!
Reply:she loved James. He was a show off for her, he always liked making her mad, but it was really all an act to get her attention. I dont know if she loved Snape, their friendship was really close and there is no doubt that he loved her. But i dont think she loved him, I think she knew that he did and wanted to keep their friendship. She started dis-liking him when he called her a mudblood after she tried helping him escape from being bullied, and he ran off to the Dark Lord.





The last book gives so much of this away, and in the 5th book after Harry sees the pensive memory, he asks if his father and mother loved eachother and he was told that they did he always loved her.
Reply:the book i think the 5th one said that after he got off his horse and started being nice and normal, Lily fell in love with him. I liked james, mostly because he hated Snape and was mean to him, but otherwise when he was picking on Snape it kinda made me think, just a little, but then I realized that everyone is human, and he truly hated Snape. I thought it was weird, when harry was going into the forest that he wasnt too warm with his dad, it was weird to me I just got a vibe but i think that was just me
Reply:She loves him! They got married and had a child (Harry)! Its mentioned in the last HP book,Deathly Hallows, that Lily did have feelings for Snape but she didn%26#039;t like the fact that he, snape, was involved in the dark arts. Later on, she fell in love with James.
Reply:well duh why else would she marry him?? no one forced her.
Reply:Snape was Lily%26#039;s best friend in her early years at Hogwarts but she grew to resent him for his treatment of others and his involvement in the Dark Arts. In the sixth book its mentioned that she thought James was a total idiot until she falls head over heels for him in their 7th year. We see that James was a complete jerk to others but these are only moments that stood out in other characters memories. I think James was probably a really decent guy most of the time, its his worse moments that are highlighted. After all Lily did marry and have harry with him. Theres no way she would have married snape.



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